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The dangers of raising children with a narcissistic parent are well known. However, many parents don’t realize the extent of the damage that can be done until their children reach adulthood.
When you think of a narcissist, you might think of someone who is always trying to be the center of attention and who is excessively self-absorbed. However, narcissism is a much more complex personality disorder than that. And, unfortunately, it’s all too common for children to be raised by narcissistic parents.
There are many different ways that a narcissistic parent can negatively affect their child. For one, they can be overly critical and demanding, always expecting their child to meet their high standards and withholding love and support unless their children meet their inflated expectations. They might also be dismissive of their child’s feelings and accomplishments, never truly listening to or validating what their child has to say.
This can lead the child to feel worthless and invisible. They might start to doubt their own abilities and start to believe that they will never be good enough. In some cases, the narcissistic parent might even go so far as to manipulate and gaslight their child, making them doubt their own reality. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt in children that can last well into adulthood.
What’s more, children of narcissists are often used as pawns in the parent’s never-ending quest for attention and admiration. This can foster a deep sense of insecurity and mistrust in relationships later on in life.
All of this can have a hugely negative impact on the child’s mental and emotional health. It can lead to a lifetime of low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. It can also make it very difficult for the child to form healthy relationships, as they might always be looking for validation
There is no doubt that raising your children with a narcissistic parent can be extremely dangerous. Not only can it lead to them developing narcissistic tendencies themselves, but it can also cause them a great deal of emotional pain and suffering.
If you suspect that you as a parent may be narcissistic, it is important to seek professional help. This way, you can ensure that your children are protected from the dangers of this condition and can grow up to be happy and healthy adults.
Attribution:
Psychology Today
CNBC